Self awareness

Self awareness

Self awareness is vital.  I think most of us want to know ourselves a bit better. There are many selves to know! There’s the me that I’m aware of, the me that I am not aware of, the me I present to the world; this me changes for my audience.  There’s me that is...
Do you love me?

Do you love me?

Being cooped up with our nearest and dearest for so long leads inevitably to tensions and differences in the ways we usually communicate.  It’s not just our partners, some of us are sharing lock-down with lots of folk and some of us are alone, communicating...
Just think of the children!

Just think of the children!

Back in early March, when the world was not mad, I was lucky enough to work with children and young people.  What I love about counselling children is often the immediacy of change and willingness to try new things.  They are amazingly adaptive to new information. It...
Keeping it together

Keeping it together

We’re entering a prolonged period of lock-down weirdness. It’s affecting everyone.  Currently being unapologetically can-do, I feel lucky that I’m able to notice and articulate these things for me and I thought I’d try to write it down for me and you. My initial...
Just think of the children!

Being strong and coping

Yes I’m a counsellor and help others with their emotions but I too am human and I know that one of my mental health defences is to ‘cope’.  I’m always the one with the plan, the one who can be depended on to be ultimately responsible.  It’s my comfort blanket,...
Are you feeling weird?

Are you feeling weird?

Are you feeling weird? I am! Wise words here in this counselling video from Gonzo. https://youtu.be/UTiTPVaHveE Remember there’s lots of on-line support around if you make time to notice it.